Saffy- My cycles were actually worse before my MC I would have AF every 2.5-3weeks and it was horrible, then had the MC so the cycles I'm having now are actually more regular than what they were beforehand if you can believe that.....lol....ah well no doubt hopefully these BTs will come back with some answers for me, maybe........
Craftymummy- Well said I agree with you who is anybody to say anything negative about any woman and her partner that endures any type of assisted conception or IVF. I find all the women I have met that have been through it or are going through it truly inspiring. And it really proves to me how much the person really wants to be a mum and for that we all should be proud and stand tall.
Luna- I only got positive OPKs a few times but AF would show up 14 days later. As far as I know you O 24-36 hours after a positive OPK.
Claires'mum - I think you asked about suppliments ect before. Well I and a lot of ladies on here have been or are on Vitex (aka Chaste Tree) a herbal suppliment that helps balance hormones and regulate cycles (and in my case improves my mood swings no end). You might like to research it a bit. If you decide to take it I'd definitely recommend the tablet form not the liquid as its disgusting. Hopefully the bt results will shed some light on what is going on for you.
T-Hopes - You poor darling, this is all hard enough without other people putting thier sh#t on us. Crafty is right you need to recognise that it is their sh#t and not take it on board, what the hell do they know!!! What we are doing is our decision and none of their f@#king business. Hearing these things makes me glad that my family is small, well tiny really, just 4 of us! You rant anytime you need babe, we are here for you.
Crafty - You still getting boobie pains?
AFM- I went to work but left after 40 mins. The OHSS is really knocking me around, I'm just so uncomfortable if I'm not lying down. At least the constipation seems to be over, the extra pressure was really not helping. On a very more positive note I have 2 snow buds so it is all worth it.
Thanks for helping me for the 2nd day in a row! Gosh im high maintenance lately Your all sooo right, they have no idea and i just need to dismiss it all... and i have learnt the hard way not to discuss it with certain ppl!
So Ive brushed it off now after having a great day at work with lots of laughs with a great mate!! Im back on top and in control! Giddy up!!
Sunbeam! yay for the snow bubs!!! rest up with that OHSS, need to look after yourself, rest and relax as much as you can! I have a large family and whilst it is wonderful, there are certainly the down sides of ppl getting in your business! thanks for listening and responding to my little rant! xx
Crafty - It makes complete sense, thank you! And 'outlaws'... that can be their new name ! hhehehe And yes, how are to shooting BB pains going??
Saffy - yes MIL has a few issues... she can be an absolute darl sometimes and other times, my gosh!!! thx love! hope that wicked AF hurries up and arrives soon!! Mine is due on Monday so we will be on the Oct IVF road together
Porsche - I see your 9 wks now! Wow, where has the time gone! Im sure its draggin for you but cant beleive how far youve come already! Glad youve been able to keep it all secret so far, its can be hard... we never told anyone for our pregnancy, i felt so protective over the bub!! thanks for the advice gorgeous, take care and lovely to hear from u! xx
Thanks again everyone! I will be better tomorrow and no whinging from me!!!
Spoke to my ivf nurse today and meeting with her monday morning to go thru our med plan for the 1st ivf cycle! fingers crossed AF arrives on time and we can get into it!! im excited!!
love to everyone ive missed!
Alice - hope your resting up and your little eggs are forming in to beautiful embies!!! xx
Take it from me the older you get the less you listen to other people and their opinions !!!
Well still got shooting pains in the boobies every now and then oh I wonder which way it will go still 50/50 only 6 more days to wait until I can officially be late !!! can I wait it out YES I THINK SO !! I hate seeing one line !!!
Sunbeam take it easy girl you got precious cargo on board !!
Alice any news how you doing ?
Indias mum love the new name but I am so used to your old one you been on here a while now like me !!! but I will get used to it
saffy any news has the witch arrived ?
Matthews mum how you doing with the osteo ? hope your channeling your positive thoughts into your next transfer and a BFP !
Porshe wow 9wks thats awsome but I know I will be so scared until I get to 16wks so I understand your keeping it quiet but hey not long till your scan hey !
Thants about it for now enjoy your evening and sleep tight
Just had an awsome arvo on the beach with my tribe they are such beach bums !!!
Ladies, just a quick update. Still not AF, thank you for your responses about OPKs and luteal phase, that is what I thought too, that AF should be here by now. I woke up feeling hangover, although I did not drink, so I did HPT, the digital kind, it came back with PREGNANT. Still not beliving it, I did 2 FR - the ones that show you 2 lines. Absolutely positively BFN. I mean, it was a ****ty-teanger-that-does-not-use-birth-control dream test result. So I still do not know.
I read several times on this forum that when the HPT was not showing a strong line early, then the pregnancy ended in miscarriage. So now I am afraid it will be chemical. I did not even tell my DH, do not want to get his hopes up.
THopes - it's nobody's decision but yours. And I am still hoping that the AF will be late for you by, oh, about 9 months at least ;-)
WOOHOO LUNA!!!!! Thats fantastic, sounds like a strong result to me so don't stress ( if you can help it), bout time we got some bfp action here CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Congratulations to me too- AF came last night- woohoo-haha!!
T-Hopes & Crafty Thanks for the coments. Yes we are 9 weeks and 3 days today. Really anxious for our OB/GYN appointment on Monday. We are very close to out M/C time and really hoping to have a dildo cam on Monday and ease some worries. I've had M/S so I know that's a great sign but it's still in the back of my mind. I had M/S last week and the week before with the up chucking and all but this week has eased off quite a bit and only throwing up once. Feel off pretty much all day so I'm *guessing* M/S will be leaving soon? I don't know. I forget half this stuff because of the big age gap.
It's not hard to keep it quiet. I don't really want to tell anyone lol. There really isn't anyone that important to me that needs to know. The important people know already. So extended family will have to wait until 16 or 17 weeks for me to start telling. And as I said before I'm really loath to tell them. We haven't even told the BIL or SIL or my sister for that matter.
Saffy - Woo hoo on AF arriving. That's the last we'll hear you say that lol.
Sunbeam - Yay on being PUPO and having 2 frosties.
Alice - Hope all is well with you.
Matthewsmum - I can't read your post to see where you are up to. But I hope all is going along smoothly for you.
so it is all worth it.
Your all sooo right, they have no idea and i just need to dismiss it all... and i have learnt the hard way not to discuss it with certain ppl! 
And yes, how are to shooting BB pains going??
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