LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #4

[Sunbeam]

Possum Magic - I rarely used to get O pains at all till all of this. I sometimes get it one side and sometimes both. I think sometimes it can mean that both ovaries will O but generally follicles develop on both ovaries and then one becomes dominant and the others decrease again so you may just be feeling the follicles developing or deminishing. A thin lining will affect implantation. If you are worried about your lining then you might want to think about doing IUI to concieve as this is something they monitor regularly . Chinese medice/ acupuncture is another option as they focus very much on blood/circulation/cleansing etc

Alice - I am not on Clexane only low dose asprin. Is is for blood thining?

AFM - Got another BFN this morning so I'm out of the running . Not doing anything till next month now as I'm away at the end of this month. I'm okay now but was pretty upset this morning and having very negative thoughts about never having a child. If Donor daddy agrees we wll do another stim cycle in Nov. and if this does not work we will then use up our frozen bubs. It is so scary getting this close to the end of the road and really having to accept that it may never happen!

[toomanyshoes]

Sunbeam - so sorry to hear that don't give up hope, hope Donor D is onboard for the next cycle and it goes better!

[Saffy]

hi ladies,

Sunbeam-have you had a blood test yet?? DOn't give up hope yet lovey, theres still a chance! If not, I'm glad you have a plan for next time ( you are good at that). Also, clexane is used for the same purpose as aspirin, it is a blood thinner so you shouldn't need both. I hope you don't feel too down, if theres hope for you there is hope for me so we have to stay positive and know we will get our babies xxx

Possummagic- I get O pain on both sides all the time all throughout my cycle, ever since the miscarriage. I really don't think it is anything sinister as I've had a few ultrasounds and no one has ever said anything was abnormal. Before my miscarriage, I was the same as you, I used to just get twinges on one side when I o'd for a few hours. Our bodies are wierdos lol.

Crafty- hmmmm, you are not out of the running either it seems, hope you defy the odds and get a sneaky one in, we seem to be on a roll here! FX! xx

Toomanyshoes-hey, nice to see you again! Sorry you feel so down, hopefully time will improve things, I was really depressed at the start of the year and it took me a while to fee better, now I just have ups and downs but on a whole am great, so I wish the same for you. Your DH sounds quite commited with giving up fags etc! Good on him, I tried to get mine to stop drinking during our last cycle and he wouldn't!!! Maybe i should nag him a bit more lol! Hope you feel like popping ina bit more xxx

ALice- how was Sydney? How was your sleep last night? I hope you got some!

THopes- hi hunny, how are you going?? xx

Hi to Mildez, Porsche, Ferals, Matthewsmum, India;smum, Luna

AFM- picked up my meds yesterday, finish the pill next Sunday then jabbing the week after, so soon, exciting!

[craftymummy9]

Sunbeam so sorry its a BFN but how many days past trans are you ? maybe too early FX still untill AF shows your not out ! I am sure dd will do one more cycle with you if you need to he has been with you all this time another month isn't too much to ask is it !

saffy not long now then till you get on the IVF cycle good luck taking the pill ( my body was never very good on it )

Mildez Hi glad your still checking in on us all hope I get to join you on the paml thread before you deliver !!!

AFM well day 30 today and still no AF no headaches either which I normallly get when she is on her way, so I tested again and BFN again why do I do this to myself I don't know when its ovbious I am not pg, anyhow don't feel too bad considering how I felt the other day so hopefully my mood stays good and strong and onwards to next months cycle when AF desides to turn up ( guess I need to get the white trousers out lol )

[damprye]

Hi everyone have I missed anymore announcements since I have been gone?

It is a good thing I stopped TTC. I have been really sick this week and have a bad case of hives. If I were TTC then I would't have been able to take the meds I need.

[Porsche]

Hi Ladies

Sunbeam - GBH's I was hoping it would be a BFP for you. I hope DD will be ready for the next cycle.

Saffy - I'm on both cartia and cleaxane but my FS is a bit extreme in the meds department and if there is something he thinks will help then your on it. So I have quite a few meds I'm on lol. I rattle when I walk.

Damprye - I hope you feel better soon. That sounds awful.

[Alice]

Ferrals!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry for the late reply but I've been in Sydney. CONGRATULATIONS on an awesome test result - hope you slept soundly last night after all the worry you've had. So I was right about it maybe being a girl!! Well, that's a first, I'm usually 100% wrong on picking the sex of my friends children. Sooooo happy for you, and a little sister from Abbi, so chuffed. xx

Sunbeam, try not to think about that just now, it will take you into such a terribly sad place and I really believe you have a good chance of getting your baby soon. When is your bt? How many days past your transfer are you now? I'm staying hopeful for you, hang in there x

Saffy, yah for picking up your meds! Not long now and you'll be jabbing away. My DH has never stopped drinking though that makes him sound like an alco and he isn't at all but he has cut down a lot mostly to just a few over the weekend. It's so different for them because everything happens outside their bodies, they just don't get that it matters how healthy they are or find it easier to put most of the work on us. It's hard to deal with and I think it has taken years to get DH to pay attention to anything I've said. Try not to worry about it, just focus on what you can do and hope for the best. It's all we can do!

Crafty, glad the PMS has passed but hope you are keeping an eye on how you are traveling emotionally and take good care of yourself. The main reason I went to counseling after my mc was to make sure that what I was feeling was grief and not developing into depression as I have suffered from that in the past. I found it very helpful and was able to have it through Medicare so wasn't out of pocket. Maybe something to think about. Good luck this month, I'm always wishing the best for you x

Toomanyshoes, sorry you are finding this all so hard to deal with. Sadly that is part of being a LTTTCer and we all understand only too well. I hope you can see some light to this dark patch soon. We are here for you x

Mildez, thankyou for all those stickyvibes! When is your next test? Are you waiting for the CV (? is that what it is called?) next. Is that at 12 weeks? Not long to go then hopefully you can enjoy a bit more attention around this pg. x

Hi Porsche, how are you going?

Luna, thanks for the POAS advice - I'm a total novice! Hope you've joined in over in the PAML thread now. So many great women there to share your pg with.

MatthewsMum, we haven't heard from you in a while. Are you OK? I hope you're just have some quiet time and feeling OK.

I know I've missed a few people so sorry about that. Hope everyone is traveling along OK.

Well no sleep for me last night...again. Felt so down when I 'woke up' this morning - don't feel very different, bbs slightly tender but nothing dramatic, a few pains in the o area but that's all. Don't feel pg AT ALL. I know it's early days and I guess this dip is expected after all the anxiety of getting to the point of having a tf and not knowing what we would have etc. So I kept myself busy this morning and now I'm going to have a nap and try not to fall into the dead zone or I won't sleep again tonight. Had lovely cuddles with my little man last night and this morning - he's a gorgeous little boy and I love him to bits. I'm very lucky to have a lot of great kids in my life but I still want my own. Please please please one day very soon can I have one for my own

[Alice]

Damprye, we posted at the same time. Sorry to hear you've been sick. Yes, Ferrals got a good result of her scan and is one step closer to having the all clear for her bub being free from SLO. She also found out it's a little girl! Did you see Luna's BFP? I think that's all. A few of us waiting waiting waiting hoping hoping hoping. Get well soon.

T-hopes, how's your belly growing?? x

[Mildez]

Sunbeam I am sorry the POAS was negative. I hope its to early and you are truely pregnant. I know I would get to a certain stage and know I couldn't be so I can see how you could rite it of for this cycle also. I'm keeping everything crossed your next BFP is close by and bubba will be here to stay.

Alice yes I am feeling more relieved now after my 12wk scan. I am not having a CVS next big thing will be the morhology scan in 2months time and my 1st Ob appointment in 3weeks. I couldn't get in any sooner.