Ferrals!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry for the late reply but I've been in Sydney. CONGRATULATIONS on an awesome test result - hope you slept soundly last night after all the worry you've had. So I was right about it maybe being a girl!! Well, that's a first, I'm usually 100% wrong on picking the sex of my friends children. Sooooo happy for you, and a little sister from Abbi, so chuffed. xx

Sunbeam, try not to think about that just now, it will take you into such a terribly sad place and I really believe you have a good chance of getting your baby soon. When is your bt? How many days past your transfer are you now? I'm staying hopeful for you, hang in there x

Saffy, yah for picking up your meds! Not long now and you'll be jabbing away. My DH has never stopped drinking though that makes him sound like an alco and he isn't at all but he has cut down a lot mostly to just a few over the weekend. It's so different for them because everything happens outside their bodies, they just don't get that it matters how healthy they are or find it easier to put most of the work on us. It's hard to deal with and I think it has taken years to get DH to pay attention to anything I've said. Try not to worry about it, just focus on what you can do and hope for the best. It's all we can do!

Crafty, glad the PMS has passed but hope you are keeping an eye on how you are traveling emotionally and take good care of yourself. The main reason I went to counseling after my mc was to make sure that what I was feeling was grief and not developing into depression as I have suffered from that in the past. I found it very helpful and was able to have it through Medicare so wasn't out of pocket. Maybe something to think about. Good luck this month, I'm always wishing the best for you x

Toomanyshoes, sorry you are finding this all so hard to deal with. Sadly that is part of being a LTTTCer and we all understand only too well. I hope you can see some light to this dark patch soon. We are here for you x

Mildez, thankyou for all those stickyvibes! When is your next test? Are you waiting for the CV (? is that what it is called?) next. Is that at 12 weeks? Not long to go then hopefully you can enjoy a bit more attention around this pg. x

Hi Porsche, how are you going?

Luna, thanks for the POAS advice - I'm a total novice! Hope you've joined in over in the PAML thread now. So many great women there to share your pg with.

MatthewsMum, we haven't heard from you in a while. Are you OK? I hope you're just have some quiet time and feeling OK.

I know I've missed a few people so sorry about that. Hope everyone is traveling along OK.

Well no sleep for me last night...again. Felt so down when I 'woke up' this morning - don't feel very different, bbs slightly tender but nothing dramatic, a few pains in the o area but that's all. Don't feel pg AT ALL. I know it's early days and I guess this dip is expected after all the anxiety of getting to the point of having a tf and not knowing what we would have etc. So I kept myself busy this morning and now I'm going to have a nap and try not to fall into the dead zone or I won't sleep again tonight. Had lovely cuddles with my little man last night and this morning - he's a gorgeous little boy and I love him to bits. I'm very lucky to have a lot of great kids in my life but I still want my own. Please please please one day very soon can I have one for my own