Sunbeam so sorry its a BFN but how many days past trans are you ? maybe too early FX still untill AF shows your not out ! I am sure dd will do one more cycle with you if you need to he has been with you all this time another month isn't too much to ask is it !
saffy not long now then till you get on the IVF cycle good luck taking the pill ( my body was never very good on it )
Mildez Hi glad your still checking in on us all hope I get to join you on the paml thread before you deliver !!!
AFM well day 30 today and still no AF no headaches either which I normallly get when she is on her way, so I tested again and BFN again why do I do this to myself I don't know when its ovbious I am not pg, anyhow don't feel too bad considering how I felt the other day so hopefully my mood stays good and strong and onwards to next months cycle when AF desides to turn up ( guess I need to get the white trousers out lol )
Hi everyone have I missed anymore announcements since I have been gone?
It is a good thing I stopped TTC. I have been really sick this week and have a bad case of hives. If I were TTC then I would't have been able to take the meds I need.
Sunbeam - GBH's I was hoping it would be a BFP for you. I hope DD will be ready for the next cycle.
Saffy - I'm on both cartia and cleaxane but my FS is a bit extreme in the meds department and if there is something he thinks will help then your on it. So I have quite a few meds I'm on lol. I rattle when I walk.
Damprye - I hope you feel better soon. That sounds awful.
Ferrals!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry for the late reply but I've been in Sydney. CONGRATULATIONS on an awesome test result - hope you slept soundly last night after all the worry you've had. So I was right about it maybe being a girl!! Well, that's a first, I'm usually 100% wrong on picking the sex of my friends children. Sooooo happy for you, and a little sister from Abbi, so chuffed. xx
Sunbeam, try not to think about that just now, it will take you into such a terribly sad place and I really believe you have a good chance of getting your baby soon. When is your bt? How many days past your transfer are you now? I'm staying hopeful for you, hang in there x
Saffy, yah for picking up your meds! Not long now and you'll be jabbing away. My DH has never stopped drinking though that makes him sound like an alco and he isn't at all but he has cut down a lot mostly to just a few over the weekend. It's so different for them because everything happens outside their bodies, they just don't get that it matters how healthy they are or find it easier to put most of the work on us. It's hard to deal with and I think it has taken years to get DH to pay attention to anything I've said. Try not to worry about it, just focus on what you can do and hope for the best. It's all we can do!
Crafty, glad the PMS has passed but hope you are keeping an eye on how you are traveling emotionally and take good care of yourself. The main reason I went to counseling after my mc was to make sure that what I was feeling was grief and not developing into depression as I have suffered from that in the past. I found it very helpful and was able to have it through Medicare so wasn't out of pocket. Maybe something to think about. Good luck this month, I'm always wishing the best for you x
Toomanyshoes, sorry you are finding this all so hard to deal with. Sadly that is part of being a LTTTCer and we all understand only too well. I hope you can see some light to this dark patch soon. We are here for you x
Mildez, thankyou for all those stickyvibes! When is your next test? Are you waiting for the CV (? is that what it is called?) next. Is that at 12 weeks? Not long to go then hopefully you can enjoy a bit more attention around this pg. x
Hi Porsche, how are you going?
Luna, thanks for the POAS advice - I'm a total novice! Hope you've joined in over in the PAML thread now. So many great women there to share your pg with.
MatthewsMum, we haven't heard from you in a while. Are you OK? I hope you're just have some quiet time and feeling OK.
I know I've missed a few people so sorry about that. Hope everyone is traveling along OK.
Well no sleep for me last night...again. Felt so down when I 'woke up' this morning - don't feel very different, bbs slightly tender but nothing dramatic, a few pains in the o area but that's all. Don't feel pg AT ALL. I know it's early days and I guess this dip is expected after all the anxiety of getting to the point of having a tf and not knowing what we would have etc. So I kept myself busy this morning and now I'm going to have a nap and try not to fall into the dead zone or I won't sleep again tonight. Had lovely cuddles with my little man last night and this morning - he's a gorgeous little boy and I love him to bits. I'm very lucky to have a lot of great kids in my life but I still want my own. Please please please one day very soon can I have one for my own
Damprye, we posted at the same time. Sorry to hear you've been sick. Yes, Ferrals got a good result of her scan and is one step closer to having the all clear for her bub being free from SLO. She also found out it's a little girl! Did you see Luna's BFP? I think that's all. A few of us waiting waiting waiting hoping hoping hoping. Get well soon.
Sunbeam I am sorry the POAS was negative. I hope its to early and you are truely pregnant. I know I would get to a certain stage and know I couldn't be so I can see how you could rite it of for this cycle also. I'm keeping everything crossed your next BFP is close by and bubba will be here to stay.
Alice yes I am feeling more relieved now after my 12wk scan. I am not having a CVS next big thing will be the morhology scan in 2months time and my 1st Ob appointment in 3weeks. I couldn't get in any sooner.
Ferrals - I am so glad to hear your news. I kept checking the threads all day. You certainly know how to keep us all in suspense.
Sunbeam - Are you sure it's not just too early yet? When is your blood test? I say it's not over till the blood test.
It was interesting to hear your doctor say it was easier to conceive in a losing weight phase as I have never heard that before. I have lost 5kg since the last miscarriage but realistically could do with losing another 10.
Ferrals - I am so glad to hear your news. I kept checking the threads all day. You certainly know how to keep us all in suspense.
Sunbeam - Are you sure it's not just too early yet? When is your blood test? I say it's not over till the blood test.
It was interesting to hear your doctor say it was easier to conceive in a losing weight phase as I have never heard that before. I have lost 5kg since the last miscarriage but realistically could do with losing another 10.
sunbeam - oh love, im so sorry to hear of the bfn, how long ago was your transfer? I remember you said a few wks ago, you were going to ask DD's partner for his sperm cause it may be of better quality? did you speak to him about that? thinking of you xx
possum - i always got O pain, sometimes both sides but mainly one or the other. i always feel a real heaviness in the ovary area too! As for the lining of the uterus, i went on chinese herbs and they did wonders! nice and thick!! might be worth a shot so bubs can nestle in nice and tight xx
alice - oh alice, im feeling positive about this for you... so many things you say, i had too! I had a dip dip at 5dpiui and the restless sleep too!!! thanks for asking after me, so far so good but always worry whats around the corner! But im staying positive and enjoying every second if it... i did start a new ticker, silly i know cause im so early but i just couldnt wait! you take care and i am always stalking!!
crafty - im sorry for the bfn i was so upset to see you had a hard few days... i wish it wasnt so tuff but you have to push on if this is what you decide to do! were with you every step of the way xx
matthewsmum - how are things going with you??
Saffy - so happy to hear your getting in sync!! bring on the new start to a sticky bubby!
sorry for those i missed... sending you love and sticky vibes!
afm - im going well and feel good, had a 2nd lot of bloods today and it has more than doubled which is wonderful, hcg sitting at 591 today so were more than pleased with that... still doesnt feel real, feels like one beautiful dream, just taking one day at a time.
love to you all and thanks for asking after me. lots of love xx
T-hopes, I wish I could feel as positive as you about it I just don't feel like I did last year, I remember getting up in the middle of the night to go to the loo and just feeling like my bbs were so heavy and achy and having this pressure before having to pee...this time, nothing My bbs are only a bit tender and I got some AF-like cramping after bding tonight (sorry for TMI). Apart from that, just really tired and a loss of appetite. I looked online for the most common symptoms for 8dpo and the main one is feeling tired, which I am, 'cause I can't sleep - just restless and having lots of weird dreams. Except tonight, just awake 'cause I'm feeling sorry for myself and wondering how I'm going to cope with the disappointment of this cycle not working. The whole ordeal in the hospital just keeps coming back to me - why did we go ahead with the transfer? Maybe we should have waited some more. I'm also worried I've lost too much weight - this time last year I was a size heavier and it's the only time I've been pg. I'm the same weight now I was all the other times we got our BFNs. So, just had a hot chocolate (with rice milk...blah). I'm thinking of buying some HPTs tomorrow - Saffy, should I do it? We're so alike with this, I don't know whether it's better to wait or not Sorry for the me post.
so sorry its a BFN but how many days past trans are you ? maybe too early FX still untill AF shows your not out ! I am sure dd will do one more cycle with you if you need to he has been with you all this time another month isn't too much to ask is it !
have I missed anymore announcements since I have been gone?
CONGRATULATIONS on an awesome test result 
try not to think about that just now, it will take you into such a terribly sad place and I really believe you have a good chance of getting your baby soon. When is your bt? How many days past your transfer are you now? I'm staying hopeful for you, hang in there x
i was so upset to see you had a hard few days... i wish it wasnt so tuff but you have to push on if this is what you decide to do! were with you every step of the way xx
Feeling sorry for myself post....sorry
I just don't feel like I did last year, I remember getting up in the middle of the night to go to the loo and just feeling like my bbs were so heavy and achy and having this pressure before having to pee...this time, nothing 
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