Alice - Wonderful news! You deserve some good things after your shocking week. Sleeplessness is one of my biggest pregnancy symptoms so maybe that's why you are not sleeping so well. I have often ended up in a bath at one in the morning trying to relax

Crafty - good to see you are feeling better. I didn't mean to insinuate that having more kids made the pain any less as I'm well aware it's not. I just didn't want you to look back on your childbearing years and remember this past year and it's heartbreak more than the earlier years and their joy. I fully understand about the shock of losing one around 12 weeks because I've been there 3 times now. You really think it's going to make it when you get that far.

Ferrals - waiting to hear your good news!