Good one Ferrals, sounds like you have sorted that situation out with the ex - putting down very clear boundaries like that takes away all the confusion and possibility for conflict 'cause you all know what's meant to be going on and who is sticking to it and who isn't - I'm sure Emily is grateful and now she can see where the problem is too - with her Mum and not with her Dad and you. Be shame to have to have a court case for no reason - not good for any of you. Hope you're not coming down with anything serious though it's the time of year when we all start getting bugs. Hope you get on the list for June and don't have to wait til July.

Porsche, I understand what you are saying, just seems so unfair to have to keep waiting and waiting and trying and to feel like you're not getting anywhere. I've never been on Clomid but I have read in other threads women who've had problems with it, no consolation for you, I know. I hope you O soon so you can either get UTD or start your AF and get the IVF ball rolling. Hang in there x

MatthewsMum - a date, at last! Ok so 19th it is - that's less than a week now, how exciting. Fingers crossed that little blastie will be snuggling in and sticky tight this time next week! I had one transfer without my usual doc and at the time I thought it might be good just because every FS is a bit different in how they do things and you never know if it might make a difference! Fingers, toes, legs, arms, everything crossed for you. I so want to see you out of this forum and into the BB groups (with regular visits, of course

Sunbeam - how're you going in the TWW?

Sevie, Hubba_Bubba, Trea - how are you all? Or am I confused with the other thread?

AFM, have realised that if I were taking my temp vaginally (so if TMI), my chart would be looking much better because there is about a .2 difference - so my 36.6 would be 36.8 which would be great so I'm going to start doing that and I'm going to revise all my other charts to take in tomorrow to see if she thinks that I'm doing better. Last week I didn't go because the week before she said there wasn't much about my charts she was happy with. Talk about a great bed-side manner. Anyway, if she can help me, I'll put up with some bluntness but honestly when you are feeling a bit fragile about it all, it can really make you feel blue.