Hi Mon, Yes it is very hard ... I have a close friend who i was bridesmaid for just a few months before she became pregnant, as soon as she was pregnant, she stopped calling me and coming to visit. I was very hurt by this, as she too, had been on clomid to conceive her daughter. I haven't spoken with her for nearly 12 months, she never returned my calls.

Currenly one of my best friends has become pregnant, and all she talks about is being pregnant. She rang in tears the other day and said the sonographer had been rude to her, then rang back a few days later balling her eyes out, much to my concern thinking she had lost the baby, but all it was about, was her husband had bought home from work all these dirty coffee cups and left them on the sink... I like yourself played the 'good sport' but what i really wanted to say was 'For F#cks sake, please can you get a reality check, you are pregnant, and you are carrying a healthy baby' Mind you it took her all of two months to get pregnant!!!!

The thing is, if people haven't been through the experience that we are going through, they will never understand how hard it really is. As much as they say they understand they never will.

Leis x