Oh girls, you are not alone there!

Many of dh's friends have recently had bubs or are pg. Even though we started ttc before them all (since July 05), and often they can be really insensitive and go on and on, some of them know what happened but those who dont always ask 'so when are you getting pg or what are you waiting for?" I find that dh himself has distanced us from those sorts of couples.

My two besties, were there for me during my loss, and god love them. But when one of them recently got pg, it was like they forgot all I went through, she even told me she was pg on my edd! But i forgave for that, and then listened to how they were going to do the nursery etc etc etc, I got angry at them for not being very sensitive. Her SIL has been trying for 4yrs and no success, so she was very distant when they told her, and my friend kept saying 'oh well I cant be miserable because she cant have kids etc etc', very insensitive. I tried to explain how her SIL might have felt but she didnt understand.

So unless someone has been LTTTC or had a loss, they would never understand and will say insensitive things. Thats why we have each other here on bb, cause we all understand what the yearning for a child is like. Hopefully we will all be blessed with babies of our own, but for know...you know how it goes....

take care and wishing you all bfp and h&h pg's soon,
Lots of love
Lisa