I think you're so right Michelle71...so people get it and some people don't...

My younger brother and SIL are a couple that "don't get it"...I've considered talking to him about it (as I don't have a particularly strong relationship with my SIL) but have decided that the probable outcome is that I'll feel more exposed and it will still go over his head...

Fortunately the rest of my family are very understanding...though it certainly makes it difficult for them...I really feel for my Mum and Dad as they seem quite torn...they feel very sad for me, but at the same time are excited about becoming grandparents...

I just think it's just a bad time for me...every friend I have is pregnant where as about a year ago, none of them were trying...there's 10 babies due in the next 6 months...I am thrilled for them all...but it's hard. Until I found this site, I didn't know anyone else who is LTTTC...I know there were women out there, but I just didn't know them...

This site is an absolute Godsend for me...just to hear people in similar situations...hearing some inspiring stories, some successes but also sharing in the heartache and sadness...