My darling DH was told by a good friend of ours that he and his wife were pregnant at work on the way back from getting coffee (and he wondered why the reaction was less than positive ) They knew about our miscarriages and the stillbirth of Caitlyn, even sent flowers and came to support us both, but when all was said and done they were just caught up in their own little world of bliss. Ignorant to our pain and torture. Male friend's sister is also going though IVF and, finding it difficult enough to manage their obliviousness myself, I told him to refrain from telling her they fell pregnant first cycle, without trying, bascially with one episode of DTD!!!! I am sure he still doesn't get why.

Unless you have been there, you really don't understand the struggle of others TTC. And to be honest, I don't want others to experience the pain I have experienced.

On the other hand, we have adorable friends who were pregnant with us and due around the time Caitlyn was due. They have been an amazing support and continue to be so, even though they have not experienced loss or the challenged of LTTTC. Some people get it, others don't. And we just keep striving to achieve (my old school motto ) our hearts desire of that beautiful bundle of joy.