bbtrail,

When I began posting on BB, I too was really worried that as I've had three children naturally, and had a tubal ligation (which was unsuccessfully reversed) that that made me less deserving of falling pg as some of the girls here who have not yet had a child.

I do believe I would be made of stone if I didn't feel that way.

But you know what? I reckon the girls here not only understand my heartache from months and months of TTC, but they've never told me that I should consider myself lucky to have had kids before and they have never told me that my despair and anger about the unfairness of my failure to fall pg is unjustfied (though others outside this forum have)

These girls here are just the most wonderful bunch. They know how hard it is for them, and empathise with how hard it is for you, even when the circumstances are different. All of it (the BFNs) are heartbreaking, and therefore universal. It's painful not to be able to do something as 'simple' as fall pg to your 2nd child (or your 4th, as it is in my case)

Especially when it's been going on for years and years...

I love the girls here. They are truly my anchor to sanity.

love
sushee