People do say stuff without realise just what affect it has on you - particularly when you are facing IVF.

I first started posting here because I was questioning whether the reason why it wasn't working for me was because I didn't want it enough thanks to what someone inadverntly said.

I don't think anyone -even those that get pregnant at the drop of a hat can say that they never questioned things and doubts - however small - didn't go through their mind. It is normal and it is human.

Only you know the answer to your question and if your heart tells you to go for it - then go for it!