Wow - the post that Rach75 wrote is amazing. I am going to print it and keep it somewhere to look at.

I know how you feel, but i think I will never be a dad.

I think someone said that your friend made the comment that she thought that you never wanted kids, and you said that 2 years ago you thought the same. I dont think that your friend would be saying this in any sort of insensitive way, just mearly stating the same that you have, she never thought that you did want kids.

I dont think people realise how "touchy" we can become on the subject, as it is such a hard and frustrating journey.

Never doubt yourself. People change, and just becuase you didn't want kids 2 years ago, doesn't mean that you dont want them now. When you hold your baby you will know that the journey was worth the ride.