Farmgirl if you want kids that is your right and no one can deny you that. I went through the whole maybe someones trying to tell me something but then i look at some of the idiots that have children and think what gives???? I have a DS already and everyone was so shocked when i told them i was preg they thought i never would etc even my own dad. But im going to sound like im boasting but just trying to make the point they all comment now about what a great mum i am and cant believe how i take it all in my stride so dont worry, have fun proving them all wrong!!!!!!