I've been reading this thread carefully, but I don't have anything to add. Some of your responses are heart wrenching and I can't believe that some people are so insensitive. I hope I was never one of those people.

Anyway, just a question, do you feel like somebody is intruding if they ask q's about IVF IUI etc.... that you are undertaking? The reason I ask is that a close friend of my has just been referred to a fs and I am really interested in knowing what happens, when, etc.... but I don't want to seem insensitive to what she is going through - does this make sense?