Hi All,
The one that gets me the most and I hear it all the time is " Oh well just guess you will have to be foot loose and fancy free" and "Enjoy your marriage and husband as most people would just love to have that" , true there are alot of singles out there and there are alot of unhappy couple, but WE ARE HAPPY but we don't want to be foot loose and fancy free we want to be PARENTS we want a FAMILY. The other one i get is "Oh my dear don't you think you guys are a bit old for all of that" just because I'm 42 and hubby is 49 doesn't mean we are looking for buriel plots! Most of my friends have only just had babies or pregnant as we speak am I such an abnormality with my age???? The age one does **** me off! Or with all the thousands and thousands you've spent over the years you could have had a nice overseas trip or done that extension on the house or put the pool in - I would give up just about anythink to know I am going to be a mummy. Anyway I could go on and on just like the rest of you, but I try not to take any of it to heart to much as I know in my heart what we are doing is for us and to hell with what everyone else thinks.