Hi there BW!

Funny you should have an encounter like that this weekend as i had an awful encounter as well!

I went to the movies with my DH on Sat night and prior to the movies I popped into the book store close by as I had some time to spare. Now I had just bought a new dress that cost me a little more $ than I usually do and I felt really good in it and had lots of comments about how nice it looked! and before i go further it was kind of a babydoll style where it stops under the brest and flare out a bit...anyway I was in the bookstore minding my own $%*%^&* business when this old guy whom I do not know says to me "how's the bub?" and I said "excuse me?" and he said "hows the bub" and I said "What Bub?" and he said "Oh, Im sorry I thought you were pregnant"- WHAT THE #$%@ IS THAT! A perfect stranger approaching me in a bookstore!!!!!! What is the chances of that happening to someone like me! Needless to say that I burst out crying in the cinema for about an hour after that!

Now I know that over the past few months I have put on around 5kilos and my gut looks a bit puffed but im still only size 10-12


What gives people the right to do that? more importantly Why do I have such rotten luck! I really felt good for once in this long struggle of mine, and God knows my self esteem has been shot to pieces- Why OH why did that happen to me? Sometimes I feel that Im cursed or something....goes bad luck is just follwing me around at the moment!