Thanks everyone for the support and the advice and insights...I appreciate it very much.

I know, through previous lap during the ectopic, that the left tube is damaged with adhesions, and sort of 'clubbed down' at the end, near the ovary...so it's not in great shape at all...and yet, is has worked at least once...as this last pregnancy proved.

Anyway, you are all right, it's up to DH and I in the end..and we are still thinking 3-4 months TTC naturally, (and also take a short holiday) then resume IVF. I am still really down, but a bit less raw than a week ago, so one step at a time. Thanks again friends.
Emma
xx