Well i just had the most heartbreaking few minutes about 20mins ago. I was down the road at a friends house and she has a 8week baby boy.....I was holding him and he was screaming his little heart out, so i told her i feels and smells wet, she she got all sh*ttyy and changed him....then i took him back again, and nursed him to sleep......she then got all "i now have realised what i am missing, and it doesn't include the baby"....i was just floored......here i am wanting a baby of my own so badly, and here she is saying she doesn't want her baby.....he is the most gorgeous little guy and i love him to pieces, but what can you do. she is the type of person that loves the attention she gets from people because she has a baby, but she doesn't want the hassles of having a baby.....sorry for venting....cheers kiya