Tubal Reversals #14

[Mumof8]

Lol i cant wait to have some drinks again.
We have decided on a name Breah Alexis Denice(Denice is after my mum and i really dont like it it just doesnt flow if you know what i mean). Im pretty sure thats the way we will spell it its normally spelt Brea but i dont like it spelt that way so it was going to be Brieah or Breah wat do you think?
Im having her on the first of May now so not to far away.
I interviewed cleaning ladies yesterday cause im a freak when it comes to my house being clean and things getting done. So after my c/s i know i wont be able
to do it all so she started today. Just once a week for the next 9 weeks until im back on my feet. Boy did i feel weird having someone clean my house but she did a good job even did all the window sills and moved the furniture out from the wall. I have done stuff all all day and im so tired!
But i sure could get used to a cleaner around once a week hehehe!

So anyway where is everyone?????????? I have been in here everyday for nearly a week but noone posting!!????

[mummy25]

Yes I like the name brea but I dont know how you should spell it, best go with your heart.
(not sur about the denise added but again it is your choice and you must follow your heart on that one too).
wow a cleaning lady - "I want One"......
How much do they charge these days and what do you get for it?

(I hate mopping the floors and cleaning the bathrooms and I also loath Ironing, i dont like cleaning windows either, Ok I am not a fan of cleaning at all....)
But I do it as I dont like mess.

The first of may WOW that is comming really fast, how are you feeling stress wise? as I would be freaking about the op right now if it was me.....

I have my appointment on the 21st of april with the doctor for the Ivf so far Im still attending it with Craig, and we will see what happins after this.
I think they mainly do tests with the first appoinment font they?

I'm 30 this september, "Bugger"...

[Mumof8]

Oh i hate Denice too but mum will be chuffed about it,she has dropped some hints here and there.
Oh a cleaning lady is a must have im not going to want to get rid of her once im able to do everything again.
She striped the beds and remade them(cause i asked hehe) dusted EVERYTHING high and low mopped the floors vacuumed did all the skirtings and window sills putted everything out and vac behind did both bathrooms and the 3 toilets wiped all the cupboards in the kitchen down wiped all the wardrobes down. It was $90 but it was really worth it trust me.Even if you got it once a fortnight or once a month as a treat. Im getting mine done once a week cause i normally do it once a week. Yes im starting to freak out abit only cause of the op and now also the added stress that my heart will be ok during it. Ive been fine but i just freak out.
But im getting so excited about meeting my little girl i so cant wait for that part.
I keep thinking and dreaming i have a boy and it really freaks me out.
I was thinking you had your appt soon and tests the first time and the next time for the results and the referal to westmead and you should be done with the specialist. How exciting!

[kiya]

well ladies i have been busy with school holidays....so can't wait for the $hit heads to go back to school next week. well atm i have a lemon ruski sitting on my desk, and its all mine.....still not doing the preg thing, hubby just went for an internal job interview for the F1-11 team, and if he gets it means a pay increase, which would be fantastic,then i wouldn't have to work and we can start pretty much straight away on ivf....i hate having to wait, but he says it would be better to wait this way we know that when it comes time, we don;t have to worry about anything. we are also looking at going through qld fertility in toowoomba, but the only draw back is it is going to cost $7,500.....they have a higher success rate with the ICSI in women my age group......it looks like we are heading down the icsi path because dh's swimmers have decreased to him #1 smoking & #2 stress.....i'm still collecting my baby stuff, and now all i need is a cot & baby and i'm all set.....well enough out of me.....cheers kiya

[Mumof8]

Kiya- your very strong to be able to wait. I couldnt so we just went with it. feet first like normal hehe. School holidays start tomorrow for us. YAY im getting a sleep in for two weeks then a new baby the next week

[kiya]

yeah i wanted to go for it, but i myself decided that it was best to wait.......we had to decide what had to come first and even though i so desperately want another baby, we also have to have a roof over our heads as well, and to bring a new baby into our crappy house wouldn;t be fair.......so the house, and dh's job come first, then the baby.....plus i'm also thinking of working out at the RAFF base as well to get more fund together and build our nest egg up again, so when i do have to leave we will have the money put away, also being out there i will get maternity leave, which is a plus these days.......it seems everyone in laidley these days is either having a baby or just had one, i have days when i come home in tears because thats all i want......enough of me.....cheers kiya

[Mumof8]

Im so different to you i just cant wait everything has to be yesterday hehehe.
I wouldnt put it off much longer darl cause that clock is ticking.
I know ivf is good but you dont want to lessen your chances anumore then you have too!
Give your selves the best shot and all the rest can come later.
There all pregnant or just had one cause there is nothing better to do in laidley .
Listen to your heart!