Tubal Reversals #14

[Mumof8]

Oh i hate Denice too but mum will be chuffed about it,she has dropped some hints here and there.
Oh a cleaning lady is a must have im not going to want to get rid of her once im able to do everything again.
She striped the beds and remade them(cause i asked hehe) dusted EVERYTHING high and low mopped the floors vacuumed did all the skirtings and window sills putted everything out and vac behind did both bathrooms and the 3 toilets wiped all the cupboards in the kitchen down wiped all the wardrobes down. It was $90 but it was really worth it trust me.Even if you got it once a fortnight or once a month as a treat. Im getting mine done once a week cause i normally do it once a week. Yes im starting to freak out abit only cause of the op and now also the added stress that my heart will be ok during it. Ive been fine but i just freak out.
But im getting so excited about meeting my little girl i so cant wait for that part.
I keep thinking and dreaming i have a boy and it really freaks me out.
I was thinking you had your appt soon and tests the first time and the next time for the results and the referal to westmead and you should be done with the specialist. How exciting!

[kiya]

well ladies i have been busy with school holidays....so can't wait for the $hit heads to go back to school next week. well atm i have a lemon ruski sitting on my desk, and its all mine.....still not doing the preg thing, hubby just went for an internal job interview for the F1-11 team, and if he gets it means a pay increase, which would be fantastic,then i wouldn't have to work and we can start pretty much straight away on ivf....i hate having to wait, but he says it would be better to wait this way we know that when it comes time, we don;t have to worry about anything. we are also looking at going through qld fertility in toowoomba, but the only draw back is it is going to cost $7,500.....they have a higher success rate with the ICSI in women my age group......it looks like we are heading down the icsi path because dh's swimmers have decreased to him #1 smoking & #2 stress.....i'm still collecting my baby stuff, and now all i need is a cot & baby and i'm all set.....well enough out of me.....cheers kiya

[Mumof8]

Kiya- your very strong to be able to wait. I couldnt so we just went with it. feet first like normal hehe. School holidays start tomorrow for us. YAY im getting a sleep in for two weeks then a new baby the next week

[kiya]

yeah i wanted to go for it, but i myself decided that it was best to wait.......we had to decide what had to come first and even though i so desperately want another baby, we also have to have a roof over our heads as well, and to bring a new baby into our crappy house wouldn;t be fair.......so the house, and dh's job come first, then the baby.....plus i'm also thinking of working out at the RAFF base as well to get more fund together and build our nest egg up again, so when i do have to leave we will have the money put away, also being out there i will get maternity leave, which is a plus these days.......it seems everyone in laidley these days is either having a baby or just had one, i have days when i come home in tears because thats all i want......enough of me.....cheers kiya

[Mumof8]

Im so different to you i just cant wait everything has to be yesterday hehehe.
I wouldnt put it off much longer darl cause that clock is ticking.
I know ivf is good but you dont want to lessen your chances anumore then you have too!
Give your selves the best shot and all the rest can come later.
There all pregnant or just had one cause there is nothing better to do in laidley .
Listen to your heart!

[kiya]

that is so true......my heart says do it and do it now......but another part of me says wait, but that is also playing with the inner clock......maybe i should just do it and deal with everything else later.......i have already had the phone conference with westmead, my gp and myself, so that is the first hurdle down.....maybe i should when i get my tax back i put it towards making this baby happen.....it could be incentive to get the new house happening sooner....i know what you mean about the babys & laidley......there was even a grandmother having a baby.....she was at the school picking up her grandson and i over heard her talking to another mother and how she only a few weeks to go and was having to have a c/s because of her age......she looked like she was nearly 60......must be something in our water......cheers kiya

[kiya]

knock..knock..knock....anyone home......wow it is really quiet in here. school holidays must be keeping you all busy....my kids went back to school today....woohoo....i could not be happier...LOL...Em hope you are too uncomfortable....only a few short weeks to go then you will be holding that beautiful baby.....cheers kiya