Tubal Reversals #15

[dearmum]

Hi Motherof6Thanks for that,it gives me a positive out look.I must say you were so lucky for it to work the first time.Im sooo hoping it will work for me the first time because i cant stand all the needles and watching the clock 12hrs a day,but hey il keep at it for a while and if it dosnt work i think il do a TR and then let nature take place.Well got to go and pick up my kids from school have a good day

[Mumof8]

Dearmum,
I was given a pretty high chance at falling first go because i had never in the pasted had any problems falling pregnant, never had a miscarriage and i was still pretty young. One in every three fall first go so i was told.
They advised against having two put back because my chances were farely high but we went against that as we didnt want to go thru the hole IVF thing again. Two was better then one in our minds. I remember my Ivf like it was yesterday, the alarm on my mobile would go off every 12hr if i didnt do it that way i would have forgotten for sure.
I went to a BBQ one day with my drugs on ice in my drink cooler, another time in the middle of a carpark after lunch with a girl friend. Things we do hey.
Here's you get some good eggs and you get to freeze some just incase. That way you dont have to go thru a hole cycle again.

[dearmum]

Thanks Motherof6Yeh any advise at this stage for me is greatly appreciated.Yeh my Doc told me i have a 30% chance for it to work,hmm so i have 70% chance it wont work great figuresBefore i had my TL i was so fertile and same as you had no miscarriges,but i guess my age makes things different.I must say i find you are very lucky to have 6 kiddies at your age,if i was to turn the clock back i would love to have as many as the Duggers on foxel she has 17 and they all seem such a lovely family,i find most large families seem very close when they grow up.You know i feel miserable when i think i allowed my Doc to do a TL on me.Well i must stay positive.Do you think you will have more kiddies?
Well take care

[Mumof8]

Oh ive watched all the Dugger shows and there on drugs seriously,17 kids there up to thats madness.
I love all my kids so much but im at 6 now and there is just not enough time in the day and i dont have enough hands to give them all the love and attention they all want and need.
In saying that i do have 4 frozen Blasties. They mess with my head abit because i know there there and i dont want to give them away but i dont want to put them down the drain either. So it really plays with my emotions on what to do with them. So to answer your question im so happy with what i have and i always said i would have anymore kids once i was 30 but those 4 little things make me very uneasy so i just dont know. If they werent there i wouldnt care to have anymore because im content. Maybe i'll just leave them where they are and forget about them.
I would have thought your chances were higher then that at 34 with no pasted history, more like 40 to 60% i think. I would check on that one

[dearmum]

Hi Motherof6back again!i just had my egg collection today they got 8 out of me so im hoping at least 2 are good enough,yeh im a bit sore.I know what you mean about having frosties there waiting for you,i think i would feel the same,but knowing me atm i would want them all.Did i tell you i asked my doc about having 2 put back in and the answer was a big no,i feel its unfair as its my body i should have the last say
By the way your baby looks so cute!
Well got to rush off,but il let you know how it all turns out ok can you please pray for me that it works.Thanks

[onemore]

Hi ladies, sorry I hav`nt been in for a while.. how are you all ?
Em it must be tough knowing you have 4 maybe`s just sitting there waiting !! You know if you had 10 you`d prob get a mini bus
dearmum great to hear your moving along on your journeythat it all turns out for you guys, its about time we had some more BFP`s in here..
I`ve been charting this cycle so am a bit consumed with that atm, Im 8dpo and have been having cramps and sore bb for about the last 4 or 5, trying not to get my hopes up but am this month might be a good one.. I really wanted to be utd before my would have been due date which is in about 5 weeks, not because I want to replace my little angel but just to take my mind off that particular time..
Better head off to bed so will catch up soon
Take care

[dearmum]

Hi OnemoreGood to hear from you!i was just wondering are you going through ivf?as you said you are 8dpo does that mean you had your eggs transfered?Well im cruising along atm just looking forward to hearing some good news that my embies are growing well.About the sore boobs i have them already and iv only just had my epu,i hope my AF dosnt come early.Well gota go love to talk more

[karend]

Hi onemore... Good to hear from you.

i got the pre admission forms this week.....hopefully i get a date soon for the op.

Hope everyone is well...
Talk soon

Karen

[Mumof8]

Dearmum well done on getting 8 eggs. I was so so sore for a week after i had to take it real easy.
How are they going any news yet? Very unfair on our doctor telling you no but i would still ask again as i dont think they can say no. only if you were wanting more then two they can. Are you having having a day2 embryo transfered? I checked my clinic and they give a 40 to 50% chance at your age aswell. that the transfer goes well and you get

Onemore i sure hope this is your month it sure sounds good

[dearmum]

Hi LadiesToday im sooo happy my whole 8 eggs fertilized and are going goodI feel like shouting out to the whole world yay all my eggs fertilized.They want to take my embies to blasto the 5 days i m just worried i hope they can last that long.I wish i could have them in now.Motherof6 you have made my day telling me those figures as my Doc proberly told me 30% so i dont get my hopes up,but hey iv been praying everyday that i can have another chance for a baby.
Good luck Karend with your op i hope you fall straight away
Hi Onemore!are you going through IVF?

[Mumof8]

Dearmum thats so awesome that all 8 have fertilized. I had day 2 embryos put back so i guess your wait will be longer you poor thing. I all 8 make it to blasties stage as its not easy making to that stage. So execited for you tho gives me gooses

[onemore]

Hi girls,
hey Em hows your little sweetpea going ? she is just gorgeous.. Im trying not to get my hopes up, dont want to be disapointed again.. my temp jumped from 36.5 yesterday to 36.7 today so here`s hoping thats a good sign
Karen great to hear things are moving along for you, hopefuly not to much longer to wait.
Dearmum no Im not doing IVF, I had a reversal in 06 so it has worked... I guess I can say it has worked because I know I can get pg just have to keep it there !!
8 dpo means 8 days past ovulation, you can normaly get a BFP by about 12 days past so not long before I can test, dont know if I really want to though incase its not good news.
Great to hear all your little eggies have come to the party... I agree with mumofsix keep onto them if you want 2 put back in, I know if it was me thats what I`d want too.
Iv`e been having a few symptoms but I could well be just wishing them up !! the mind is a powerful thing.......
Well might hit the sack, will chat to all you lovely ladies again soon.
Have a great weekend
Take care

[dearmum]

Hi ladies back againwell today my embies are at day 3 and 3 of them are excellent 2 are good and 1 is ok and the other 2 are dying.My transfer will still be on tuesday but not sure of the time yet.
Hi Onemore im getting excitted for you i hope you are pregnant,are you going to do a HPT?i know i would because i cant stand waiting.My kids have been so cute asking how are the babies going,i just hope they can survive until 5 daysYeh my Doc is still being a ass he wont put in 2 and its all got to be his way.Well i wish i had done the TR a few yrs ago but my hubby back then was over kids and was only thinking of himself.Well he is 54 so i think it
had to do with worrying about his age.Yeh iv allways wanted kids even at such a young age.Now my daughter is 17 and she loves to be married and have kids,i joked to her saying we can have a baby together when i have my second but you have to be married first.Well i talk again next time.

[luvchildren]

em, hi hows your beautiful angel? haven't been in for a while, real busy with uni stuff. as for ttc still patiently waiting.... glad to see you are returning to normal.... well i have had normal af for the last two months. it has been unusal cause since the reversal, my af was late every month but regular. since the last hsg, for the last two months, they came on the exact date. i am having a scan tommorrow to check on the polycystic stuff- i am looking forward to seeing it cause i want to know how things are in there after the ectopic earlier this year.
dearmum, hi and welcome. had my reversal in dec 06 have had two ectopics but not to worry cause it wasn't actually inside the tube it was over the back of my ovary. you see i didn't have clips, my tubes were cut and tied. with clips you have a far better conception after clips. glad to hear about your eggies..
storm, hey have you moved? i hear you about the time. i so would like to have another baby, but can't go through with ivf. hows maz? has anyone heard?

karend, hope that everything goes really well with your reversal. just remember that you are the author of you health not doctors- its egotistical doctors that did this to us in the first place.
onemore, so happy for you hope you get a bfp!!! sure you will- how was your journey and did you fly to sydney for the clinic?

[Mumof8]

Dearmum..All sounds good. Hope your transfer went well today i have everything crossed for you and im for your little miracle.
Hey Luv good to see you again. Your too too busy these days sure would slow you up abit. Breah is doing good i think she is starting to smile cause i say to her fairly loud "hey darln" and she gets this little smile. It cant be wind

[dearmum]

Hi LadiesJust a quick update on my progress.I was so happy today because not only did my embies get to blasto stage they went a little further,my Doc said they are the best they have seen in a long time so yeh that sounded goodWell i only had 1 tranfered and my Doc said no one else in Australia would transfer more than 1 blasto so i need a miracle for twins.Well i guess so long its healthy.Motherof6 did you get all swollen in your stomach after transfer?well i was and i still am.Did you have accupunture?I had under gone 4 treatments because i heard it helps.So im now on the dreaded 2 week waitYeh i thought after the nurse told me not to do much today thats great kids and hubby can take over,NO Hope for that!yeh they cant live without me i think.
Enough about me,how is everyone?
Talk again next time

[onemore]

Hi girls, I put a post up last night but its not here !!! dont know where it went...

Dearmum thats great news sending you loads of try to take it easy.

Em Breah is growing so fast, she is so cute..

I went with my sister to have her baby on Monday, a little boy Jackson Henry 7lb 8oz.
I had a little cry at the end wishing it was me but I hid it pretty good... She done a really good job was fairly quick, had nigly 10min apart from about 4 oclock Sun then 1 and 1/2 hours of 2 mins apart Mon morning waters broke and he was born 10 mins later.. and no pain releif.
I found it quite hard watching her go through that pain and not being able to do much to help, at least when its yourself you have something at the end to focus on but when your in a support role it sticks with you for a while longer.

Better go go work in a couple of hours
Have a good day.

[mummy25]

Hi everyone...
Mumofsix - breah is soooo beatifull.....

I had my pap tests come back and my diseases tests - all negative....
Phew .... no cancer, no nasties.....

I still want the ivf ....
I am hoping now that my doc has done the tests I can skip that bit when I see the gynocologist.

I just need to convince dh now.
he still wants me to have the op to reverse but he does not want to pay the costs that they want us to pay ($7600).....
I am explaining that ivf at sydney is only $1500 ? and that is the best way to get results.
Ivf up here in newcastle is about $4500 (and that is the by paying the gap).

dearmum - when I was considering ivf I spoke to them about having 2 put in and they said most wont do it.
she did however tell me which doctors were more likely to be convinced and which would not listen...