hey everyone, thanks for that nice comment em. it was great having you down there. you were such a great help and there is no way we could have done anything without you. you are a great mate. thanks for everything. Yes we have started the process....... we have some obstacles... well maybe you guys can tell me what you think.. has anyone had a fibroid? well they can remove them with an electrode (burns) and shaves them off leaving scar tissue. I have a very little- smaller than 1cm one and they wanted to burn it. i have disagreed saying that scar tissue would be just as irritable than the fibroid.... anyway does that make sense? how is an egg going to implant on scar tissue? anyway... i am awaiting af... stupid thing was supposed to show up today... when that shows up if the clinic can fit me in.. I will start my journey... i still don't have the money, but hopefully i can not pay rent he he he he.... and make ends meet.... will keep you all posted....