Tubal Reversals #15

**Mumof8** · September 18th, 2008, 10:13 PM

Anytime Luv Mwahh!
Dearmum how many embryos do you have frozen?

**onemore** · September 20th, 2008, 03:29 PM

Hi girls, how are you all?

Em, dont be sorry !!! you`ve got your hands full as it is... but thanks for your well wishes.

Luv, so happy for you hun. I bet it feels great to be starting, you have been so patient you deserve it. I`ll be

for you and I really hope your first go is succesful... Your in the right place as far as luck goes, and looks like you`ll be lucky # 3 in this thread to have a little baby from first attempt. Wishing you all the best for the next few months.

Kiya, you take all the time you need and I hope you come back soon. Thinking of you.

Dearmum, thanks we are really happy, hope they didnt get it wrong! because if they did he will have a girly room and lots of pink clothes

I had a feeling from pretty early on that this one is a girl, pregnancy has been totaly different this time around.
Sounds like your fairly organised, have you started the nursery yet ? I have and now I just want to get it finished... still find it hard to believe we will have a little baby in there soon....

Take care everyone and will chat again soon

**dearmum** · September 21st, 2008, 04:57 PM

Hi Ladies

I had such a scare the other day yeh i went to the toilet and found BLOOD by the time i seen the blood it was already late so doc told me to come in the next day well thankgod everything was ok with bub but i may have an infection so im still waiting for the results.I had such a fever thats only just gone so im still in bed with aching bones and headaches,well im sure in a few days things will go back to normal.

Hi Onemore....No i havnt been decorating the nursery as bub will need to sleep in our room because my kids being teenages they need there room to themself,yeh i need to build a six bedroom,i have a 5 bedroom and our youngest is 12 so its not fair to put the baby in with them.I have bought everything else like the pram,car seat,nappies hehe and lots of clothes its great now that i know what im having.Are you missing sleeping on your stomach?thats what i miss the most,also im not looking forward to breast feeding as i get cracked and bleeding nipples for a week so im dreading that.

Hi Mumof6....How have you been?sounds like you have been getting out more and enjoying yourself?Well i have 5 frozen bubs,yeh i would be going back to have the FET once bub is about 3 months.How about yours?

Hi Luvchildren....Im really happy that you have started IVF i think you will get a good result.Its a little anoying with all the BTs but if you can get over them its ok.Keep me posted on your progress its a exciting time for you i bet.

Hi Kiya....We will miss having you around,please dont be long.

Hi to everyone else

hope your all enjoying your day.
I have to go and have another dam panadol,but will chat again soon.

**onemore** · September 21st, 2008, 10:17 PM

Evening all,

Dearmum you sure do have a house full !! Our boys are only a bit over a year apart in age so are happy to share a room. They acctualy decided themselves last month, we had family stay over for a couple of weeks and they used DS1`s room, so when they left the boys decided to stay in the one room.

I still occasionaly lay on my tummy( sort of on an angle) but have to put a pillow underneath. Backache is my bigest issue, It was bad before I fell pregnant. I`m starting swimming next week so hopefuly that helps a bit. Im really looking forward to breastfeeding although the cracked sore nipples are not at all apealing

I`ve gained 2.3kg since the 12 week booking-in appointment so am quite pleased about that as I am trying to be a bit more careful this time apart from the chocolate

...
I gained about 30kg with the boys and never really lost it so Im aiming for 10-15kg this time.

Hi to everybody else

Better go or I wont get up to get the boys off to school.

**luvchildren** · September 24th, 2008, 07:17 PM

hey everyone, just checkin in.... well not so good news. I have been debating with the clinic about the fact that i want to have 2 eggs put back not one. my intuition which is very strong, tells me that i will loose the first one. I have had 6 m/c and the polycystic ovaries with the fibroid and they are telling me that i can only have one egg put back.! i have said repeatitly that it is my choice because the embryos are mine and i have told them i understand the risks. They are still fighting me. This is puttin a big halt on things cause i am not sure i can go through all that and then m/c only to have to go back and pay money to get there and money to have another transfer!!!!!!

i can't believe they are trying to tell me that i am not in a higher risk bracket for m/c!

**dearmum** · September 26th, 2008, 11:13 PM

Hi Ladies

After all the excitement of buying the blue clothes and seeing him on the 19 week scan the outcome is no good.

Here goes

Last week i was sick and had a bleed so i rang my doc and he said come in the next day so i went in and he checked all seemed ok so he asked me to have a BT and urine test for infection,come a few days later i called them thinking they would call me if something was wrong,well it turned out i had a infection so they asked me to take these tablets that my chemist guy said was to strong for pregnant women but i had to listen to my OB so i took them,ladies that night i had slight contractions but because they were not painful i didnt take notice,well come the next morning my waters broke yeh they b*****Y broke i was sooo shocked because this sort of things dont happen to me i have never had any problems with my other pregnancies.My DH rushed me to the hospital and the doctors said there is nothing they can do because all my water is gone and they cant help a 20 week baby he needs to be 24 weeks

my heart just dropped i felt sad and angry at my OB,so i prayed he will survive another 4 weeks.Ladies it only got worse the tube ended up coming out of me,but he was still alive the docs were amazed but they told me to make a decision as if we keep going i will get infected and the baby is still going to die anyway.Oh gosh so now it was up to me,it was the hardest decision as how can i pull the plug on my baby boy.We had to make up our mind so i thought let him go back to god and be in heaven,and ladies after i told the docs he died.I went through labour 1.5hrs but i had my family with me,we all prayed and said our last goodbys.I will always miss him,i will always love him.I think he was to good for this world so god took him back.