Tubal Reversals #15

[waggers]

Good Morning ladies

Dearmum i really feel for you!! I blamed myself for a long time after having the three kids, that it was my fault that they all came early. I Knew deep down i didnt do anything wrong but i think its human nature to be able to blame someone or something even if it is yourself!!
My DH even went through a stage there after having DD Blamimg himself that maybe was karma comming back to bite him in the but for being a rat bag as a kid. It actually took me this to relise WTF was he thinking thats stupid, then relised i was playing the same blame game.
I Believe we are all given obsticles in life because we are strong enough to cope and handle them. It helps makes us who we are and become better people. I know its not nice what happened but i really hope that you are able to heal and move on as a family and start off a fantastic and wonderfull 2009!! POSITIVE THINKING!!

Well My liitle devil in a dress got three of her christmas presents early due to a really crappy hiding spot i thought was undectecable hahahaha yeah right, she got three carebears in one day for being a lttle **** go figure!! Now i need to get something else for her lucky me. I hate the shops at christmas

Well enough dordleing i better go do some house work, WOOHOO, Not

Have a great day

Waggers

[kiya]

oh dearmum.....i can so totally relate right now.....i'm sitting here in absolute tears......i left to do the school run this morning and had my 2 PB Collies inside with my eldest son's bitzer dog because someone cut through their chains, so i can't put them on until i get some new chains.....well as the story goes, i get home to find my house totally open and the dogs gone......spent a while whistling and calling them, to go bugger it will start door hopping and in the country it car, to door, to car and so on....well my neighbours said when he got home the local pound was there loading my dogs on the truck......so i headed off down to town in search of my dogs....then while i was waiting to get hold of the pound guy thought i would go next door tot he police station, to report about my house being broken into, to find out that is is now an unmanned station because it no longers has an admin officer.....and that i have to go back home and call the whoop-whoop police (Toowoomba) to tell them that due to my hosue being broken into, my dogs got picked up by the pound......then when i was in town getting milk, a friend of mine came up to me, and said word going around is that you are being set tup....i went WTF.....apparently by getting rid of my dogs, hence the barking, someone can come in a steal my horse....he is worth $10k, but the thing is even if he did get knicked i will find him again easy......we have the livestock squad 10 mins down the road, and my horse is DNA and microchipped.....case solved if that happened.....so now i'm sitting here thinking how the hell am i going to come up with the money to get 3 dogs out, pay for the update on the rego on the 2 collies, and also pay for feeding of all 3 dogs until i can get them out.......i just want to curl up and die right now......so dearmum i am right there beside ya babe.....we will get through this together......kiya

[kiya]

update on dogs and house.....i have been in contact with our solicitor and he said that since someone broke into my house to let my dogs out, to get to my horse, the dogs have in effect been picked up by the pound, i am to get my dogs back without any money being handed over because the intention was to steal the horse....the police are coming out some time today to talk to us, even they said on the phone that they will try to get the dogs back because by the dogs being picked up, they in a sense have left my horse for easy pickings....they also said in a technical way the guy from the pound has removed something from a crime scene being the dogs because my house was broken into to let the dogs out and that is an offense and if proven to be the case he can be charged....even though the dogs were on the other side of my front property gate he came onto my driveway which is still part of my property and removed the dogs....we have our gate set back on our property because of water run off and turning onto the main road.....to turn into my driveway you have to do a really sharp left turn and drive up, hence why we moved the gate up further so you aren't on the road itself while you open the gate......it is all a waiting game now...so here's hoping

[dearmum]

Thanks you guys i was having a real bad day,im doing ok now i just want this year to be over so i can look forward to a better year.
I have been thinking about babies and although i can go on without anymore i think i would proberly get down the track and regret not having another one.Did i tell you guys about my oldest son left home?yeh well he is happy now that he is in his own home so now i have a spare room im going to do that up as a nursary,once im pregnant again that is.

Hi Kiya....Babe people are so cheeky hey.I hope you get everything sorted out,this year has been S**T for alot of us.

Hi Waggers....Yeh thanks,i dont blame myself actually but my oldest daughter was saying that i have been killing everything this year and i know her she was meaning that i also killed my baby her brother,i dont think she meant it but it really hurt and i cant believe my hubby agreed with her the idiot.I love my family but they dont hold anything back when they want to say something.

Oh did i tell you guys about my holiday has been cancelled?yeh i have family coming to stay with us on the new year so shoot im going to miss out on Kl and Bali i even payed it off because i booked it myself on the net so i cant get my money back the only thing i could do was change the date so im going in July now.God i needed that holiday.I keep thinking it has to be just a bad luck year for me because nothing is going right.

COME ON 2009

[onemore]

Glad your feeling better Dearmum but sorry your holiday has been put back...

Kiya mate that just sounds too much over the top... what are people thinking these days? do you have any idea who is involved ? Man I`d be so ****ed of, I only payed a grand for my horse but if that happened to me lookout... let alone 10 grand and then senimental reasons on top of that...

Hi waggers, my boys are a bit older now so they know better but it does`nt stop them snooping... we have a few prezzies under the tree and they always know if extras have been put there, I dont think they have peeked but they have a look to see who they are for.

My sister rang a couple of weeks ago to tell me she is pg ( she had a miscariage in July)
was so excited and happy for her... but just found out she had a scan last week, she is 6weeks 5days but bubs heartbeat is only 70 which is a bit low... she has to go back to Dr next week then have another scan so I everything is ok...

Im doing good, getting tired again though.. back to having nanna naps during the day..

take care and chat soon

[kiya]

onemore......we have a pretty good idea who is behind it, as several people have said that this person wants our horse.....heck i don;t even know why she wants it, yes she can ride, but it is a competition horse which my daughter uses, so no use to this other person.

dearmum.....well looks like both our big boys are out on their own.....my soon to be 18 ds is living back in brisbane, and he loves it.....he now has a job, so his independence has grown even more.....start planning the nursery babe, it will be a way for not just you, but the rest of the family to think positive about having another baby.

as far as the cops etc.....when hubby got home today before it poured with rain, he went down and took photos of the 4wd tracks that led up to our house.....he is heading over to the other police station tomorrow with the camera to show him and to also tell them that the dogs were taken at the same time my house was being broken into.

time for me to have a glass of wine, and if i was still smoking (7 years today that i quit - cold turkey) i would have one of those too.....might have to sneak one of dh...blah, bugger that it tastes aweful

hugs everyone.....kiya

[kiya]

well i have had a very eventful day......i had to go to another police station to get a case started for last friday.....they couldn't believe that not only my local police didn't respond neither did the whoop-whoop police.....hence going to the next police station in the next town....they also believe that i have been set-up....they will be coming over today to do fingerprinting and take my official statement.....i had to keep my girls home because everything happened over a 2 day period.....my solicitor has now been informed and believes that an injustice has been done by the local council, so thinks i should get restitution for pain and anguish for the dogs being taken the way they did.....myself and the girls have been crying ever since they were taken.....now because of the dogs gone i'm not on panic alert for fear my horse is goign to be taken next....how would i explain that one to my daughter ??? i personally want to move away now and start again new elsewhere.....come on lotto so i can start a new life.....well better head off and finish my kitchen....can;t have the police turn up and have a messy kitchen