Hey guys,

Thanks for your kind words guys! I'm glad that I can help in some small way. A lot of the time I feel totally and utterly useless to tell you the truth and feel sad that I can't do something more practical to help, but I figure the more that I encourage everyone to be open about their feelings (to the extent to which they are comfortable of course), the better it will be for everyone in terms of grieving and healing (hopefully!). Interesting I should be referred to as the 'mother hen' too LOL - I actually feel very protective of each and every one of the girls on these forums so it was a nice compliment!

Becc - I've just logged back on and realised that I missed a very crucial post of yours as we were posting at the same time! Sorry about that! I too am amazed at the things your OB said to you. I can't possibly begin to imagine how that felt....and I thought I'd had terrible things said to me! Nothing compares to the comments you received from him and I'm just gobsmacked.

Whilst I remember it - once you girls have got messenger sorted out, feel free to send me an e-mail and we'll organise to have an online sometime soon ok? I'm going through paranoia of my own kind 24/7 ATM LOL. As I'm sure everyone understands all I want is to get this little tiger safely into the world and each and every day I panic that it's not going to happen! He seemed to be having a party in my tummy but has been quieter over the past couple of days so of course I'm totally crapping myself over it. I've got an OB appt tomorrow so hopefully all will be fine (as it has been every other time) but I'll talk to him all the same about it of course!