Hello me lovelies,

Sarah - I am soooo glad that your appt went well with the OB and that you were able to get some answers and direction! It really makes a difference to how you feel doesn't it? I'm really thrilled for you! I'm also glad to hear that you discussed the whole PND thing and that you are feeling comfortable on that front too. I really think you are doing a marvellous job in terms of expressing your feelings and I'm glad to hear that the professionals also agree with how you are feeling and that it is grief and not PND. It's right to say that the both are very similar (as we discussed before) but different at the same time and personally I'm really pleased that everything is going along positively for you as I know you were pretty worried about the appt (understandably!).

Becc - I can understand if you wouldn't want to go back to the OB you saw. We found it too difficult to see the OB we were seeing for our 2 m/c for a number of reasons. She didn't want to answer our questions and was very dismissive of our situation (and my soaring anxiety levels) and we found her staff also very insensitive. We also felt that we couldn't go back to her rooms even.....every time we'd been there, we'd been given bad news so we really felt for that reason that we also had to move on. Obviously everyone's reasons are different, but I just thought I'd share ours with you. I must say that seeing someone new has been really good for us as he has a different approach and has been really accommodating of our needs, which I guess have been more demanding than those of others IYKWIM?

Becc and Sarah, I truly believe that beautiful little babies are just waiting to come into your lives. You have been through such a terribly tough journey and continue to travel upon a difficult road, yet you have shown just what wonderful Mum's you both are! I really think you should both be very proud of yourselves for how you are handling yourselves in the midst of such turmoil and grief and for expressing your feelings so well, which helps not only the both of you, but also in turn helps many others out there with similar experiences! You both have ups and downs which is understandable, but I can see some really positive things in posts from both of you and it really warms my heart!