Can you please help me understand?

[Junglemum]

Aww, that is so tough.
You shouldn't have to put your life on hold to spare other people's feelings. Your sister is obviously just hurting and directing her pain and anger at you. What happened to your sister is incredibly sad and she is right to be devastated, i'm just not sure blaming you or lashing our at you is fair. But regardless of fair, it's how she is coping at the moment, and i'm sorry you have to bear the brunt of that. Hopefully she will come around.
And as for your mum, it must be so hard as a mum to do the right thing by all your children. Right now i guess she feels your sister needs her the most so is giving her all the support she can, i guess at your expense a little. But i'm sure she means well. I can understand why you feel hurt though, i would to. The reality is you haven't had a baby to hurt anyone, you've had a baby because that's what you guys as a couple want.

(Just a quick qn......If you are 12 weeks and she lost the baby a few weeks ago, does that mean you were already preg when she lost her baby?)

[Liviam]

Thanks for you thoughts Junglemum. I made a typo it was a few months ago. We fall pg a month after.

[Junglemum]

Regardless, it still not your fault. They will eventually see that, it might take some time though. x