I didn't have any physical pain when DH and I DTD for the first time after my surgery but it was a month later. I was looking forward to it but when we finally did was shocked at how upset I was about it but that was because for the first time in 1.5yrs we had to prevent and I wanted to be pregnant more then anything in the world at that time so it was a huge reminder that the one thing that could help me get pregnant was not going to do any good if that makes sense.