Thanks Tegam
Again, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. It really does make an impact when things aren't dealt with right medically. My experiences at our little local hospital have been so positive, but I've heard some horror stories! It doesn't make the pain of losing a pregnancy any easier to feel isolated in your experience and to feel like people aren't listening to you. It sounds like you had a really disappointing experience

Thanks for the offer of support! Not to worry, we've been in counselling (and am very open and proud of the fact!) since my daughters death and SIDS and Kids gives me unbelievable support too. I don't know how people go through any level of loss without some really structured support and therapy, it's too much to bear and to deal with alone. I come on the forum to reach out too, but I'm well supported with an amazing hubby, really sensitive supportive friends and the best family I could hope for that rally around us always. The ectopic has been such a weird, crazy blow that we weren't expecting that I find comfort in hearing other people's experiences as this is still a new phenomenon for me! I'm also in full research/reading mode on my new favourite topic, so anything I can learn from women who have walked in the same shoes is a good thing!
So thank you for sharing your story, I really appreciate it xxx