Tilygirl - I am so very sorry.... I know I am a bit late in saying so and reading your story - it's still very raw for all of us.. I think you are incredibly strong!!! What has happened to you and your family is extremely emotional and extremely traumatic - you're not meant to be okay yet and that In itself is okay - I've come to realise that for all of us what has happened to us of course were not okay, not yet anyway, but yes eventually we will be - we don't need to be strong for others we just need to heal... If that means talking to someone then you should do it - if it means turning around in a shopping centre coz you can't bare looking at another pregnant woman do that too... Time - we all know it - in time we will be okay - but on here, our support group - we can say No Im Not Okay .... I though I was okay yep grieved time to get on with life - then BAM - my friend gave birth; so happy for her, then why does it burn in my heart??

Teagam - I think it's a wonderful idea for TG to share her photos xx - don't know how to do either TG

I think I have gone off track and rambled a bit - it's very early for me ATM but hope I made a little sense to everyone