Jane, I am so sorry for your loss. I too elected to miscarry naturally. Even if you do go down this path there is nothing to say if you change your mind you can't ask for a D&C from your doctor. I guess the only thing in my mind would be do you want to be miscarrying over Christmas. If you feel it won't make a difference either way to how you feel then you have probably made the right decision. HUge to you at this very difficult time.