Jane, I elected to have a D&C, I didn't discuss any other option with my OB. Personally, I couldn't wait to have it done and although it was a difficult day I am so glad I did. We found out Tuesday afternoon, saw our OB Wed morning and had the D&C that afternoon. I will always be grateful to him for fitting me on to his operating list that day as I just didn't feel like I could wait. I wanted to start the process of really grieving and eventually moving on and trying for another baby.

Obviously everyone feels very different about this, and it is entirely your choice. You have to do what's right for you, and you can change your mind if you want to.