Something else to consider - will someone from work be attending the funeral? If so, who? If anyone is pregnant, just run it by the family first to see if they are OK with that. We had pregnant friends at both boys' funerals, which was OK with me. People bringing babies would not have been OK.
Good point !!!!!!!

We had friends at our daughters funeral who had a 3 month old baby girl. They stayed up the back of the church during the service and we invited them back to our place for the scattering of her ashes. They were worried about how seeing a healthy baby would affect DH and I, but I welcomed Baby M, she was a part of their family how could I not be ok with that .... They were there supporting our family ITMS??

Nae x x