What to say to a grieving family?

[delphmoon]

We ended up saying something like " We are so sad to hear the loss of X. Please know our love, thoughts and prayers are with you and DH". The girls just wanted to keep the main comment short and then those that wanted to wrote their own little thing. We also all agreed that "Congratulations" wasn't really what we were trying to say so didn't use that.

As Tash said- we think its more important to show we support and love her

[Tegam]

I also think a photo frame is nice, its a gift they can keep, it shows that you would be happy to see their beautiful baby and it supports them to be proud to show their baby IYGWIM?

I am also so sorry for you, to be term and have to face baby loss is never easy, be kind to yourself but only give of yourself what you can.....