ah man mate its so hard. ATM things are not good either. I have been through the Triple P program with independant consultants through QLD gov. I wonder if there's anything like that where you are... its free. Great way to get through issues and fine tune certain areas. But saying that, I will need to deal with that again. Matilda's turned a bit aggressive lately. She's discovered that she gets a reaction if she bites or scratches Mummy I can't help myself, I get so cranky with it.

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