No more baby club

[BekZ]

Maz thanks for this thread

Can I reluctantly join???

DH and I toy with the idea of another bub but for all the practical reasons I think it is time for us to stop with our lot as it is. We are truely blessed with 3 little girls and I have had 3 wonderful pregnancies and births. Thankfully my dream to breastfeed a bub has come true with number 3. What else should I want hey? hmmm

I still want to feel that bubba moving inside me, I still want to hold my new baby and smell it for the first time and I kinda want to live in chaos and be apart of a tribe lol.

At the same time I need to get my body back, and I am looking forward to studying or doing some thing non baby/toddler/child related. I only have 1 year left until my eldest starts school and I want to spend some time with her, before she is off getting a life of her own lol.

We just had a huge Christmas and we got all sorts of comments and wishes. Most people told me to look after myself and made comments like 'surely" your done, you must be so busy. On the other hand my husband had quite a few relos wish a son for him.

For me I really have to get over the wanting just one more. Hopefully in time this ache will pass or the universe will send us just one more because the next won't be planned.

Question: How do you get the courage to give away your baby things. I've got a load of newborn clothes here that I could give away because we need the space but I can't!!!