Elissa wow i so never thought of that for a boy in regards to if he were to have a partner who doesn't or can't have children, it's alright i read recently somewhere that girl's of Mother's that had trouble conceiving them and doing it an older age like me means she is likely to run into fertility problems herself ... so i sucked it up for a few moments & thought stuff that life is what it will be and by the time she is older if she wanted to have a child things might be different then.

... and Elissa thank you for such deep honesty in your thoughts which i think some Mother's wouldn't want to admit to which i do understand why they don't and i haven't been one to feel uncomfortable to also admit for me (and i clearly don't mean for everyone here) that yes for me there is more to life then just having children ... i'm so glad i opened up and told my SIL just that last Xmas before she passed away this Oct cause she looked so relieved to hear it as our other SIL sitting at the other end of the Xmas table talking as if there is nothing else in life to do other than to have children and she clearly wasn't thinking of our dear SIL being seriously ill with cancer and fully well knowing she may never live to have a child of her own, how she would feel to hear such talk, so inconsiderate ... and i never felt so angry like i did at that moment

Elissa, we Bubba May 2006 buddies can hold hands together through this