Massive to you hun.

I can not believe how insensitive that MCHN was to you! Is there someone else that you can see at the clinic? If there is I would also tell them what the other one said. That is terrible to just brush aside a new mums cry out for help.

With settling...I second what Anna said...I used a fit ball to sit on and just bounce holding DD firmly against my body and it would settle her. I think we also caved to a dummy at around 4 weeks. I didnt want to use it but it was a lifesaver.

You are really at the most difficult stage of being a mummy right now. You and bubs are still on your L plates for learnign how to feed and sleep and communicate. Your also recovering from the birth and all the surges of hormones are all over the place. I know you feel at a complete dead end right now but promise you with lots of support you guys will get through it. Take beautiful BG's offer to come over. Just having another mum there to talk to and help out will be an excellent support.

I dont really now waht to say as I am no expert but I will sent you lots of squishy and lots of calm vibes to you you and Shae and DH.

Keep venting hun. Its actually healthy to get it out rather than keep it all bottled up