Lulu when you work out what to do please tell me!! I dread bed time cause I have to sit in DSs room for anything up to 90 minutes while he falls asleep then he wakes up crying aytime from midnight to at best 4am and comes in with us where he proceeds to kick the cr@p out of both of us. I never had this much trouble with the 2 girls and I am at my wits end as you sound liek you are too.