Definitey yes and no. I am very aware of when I say or do something that is just like my parents and it's a catalyst for me to think about whether I am copying an ingrained pattern or whether I agree with the approach/reaction. Most of the time when I sound just like mum, I make a mental note to find a different way to approach the situation next time. And I try to plan ahead how to handle various things so that my subconcious is not just doing what I grew up with. Having said that though, inevitably I do some things just the same and find myself sounding just like my parents at times. I hope that I am doing a better job by virtue of questioning and seeking better alternatives, but who knows - maybe my parents thought exactly the same thing!