Ehhh, yes and no. I take pride in my appearance (mostly) and I do for DD too. That doesn't mean necessarily conforming to what's conventionally seen as pretty; just that DD is presented nicely, as in, clean clothes, clean face etc. I enjoy makeup and hair and clothes, but I'd just as readily go out with crazy, unstraightened hair, no makeup and trackies. I like to put DD in 'girly' things, like pink and such, and have just started putting a hair clip in her hair. But the there are days like today, where she wore a novelty 'Happy Turtle, Cairns 2012' onesie, and brown pants I don't put bracelets etc on her, the only jewellery she wears is her teething necklace.