Oh, almost forgot. Try being proactive, rather than reactive. I am not the most organised person, so often I wait to the "I'm hungry" before organising food. Not a good thing. I have had better days when I have been prepared, looked at the clock and thought "morning tea time". Same with activities.
Yes, agree with this. But I too am slack and wait for the I'm hungry.. then I get cranky at the way he's demanding food from me LOL. Hunger and tiredness play a BIG part. DS actually slept from before 6pm last night until 7.30 this morning. Didn't really wake up any happier for it LOL.. but I said to DH we need to be more strict with bedtime now that he's not sleeping through the day anymore, cos it's playing a big part... and he obviously needed to catch up since he had such a big sleep.

But yayayay at us not being alone with these cranky 4 year olds! hahah. *hugs* all round!