be proud of your situation and decisions and understand when people are being negative towards you it's usually because they are jealous or less fortunate than you

I am a SAHM because my husband can afford me to stay home. I feel very blessed to be in this position and if others were to judge me I couldn't help not looking at their own situation to find out where there feelings are coming from.

As for unwanted advice when becoming a mum, unfortunately everyone has their opinions on everything! You learn to get a tough skin & pretend you're listening. Take it all in with a grain of salt