Michelle sweetie, I've only just seen this post, haven't been around much the last week or so.

I remember feeling this way about DD after my m/c. She was still only 12 months old and I had an overwhelming fear that something awful would happen to her and both of my babies would be taken away from me. I also used to worry about my DH, parents etc etc, but it was mainly focused on DD.

Seeing that a lot of the other girls have felt the same, I'd agree that it's a fairly normal reaction, especially given your circumstances.

I can tell you that over time, the fear subsided somewhat. Now it is focused on the little bubble still in my belly, but I don't think there's really anything I can do about that. Just take it one day at a time, which I know you will understand. I have spoken with my ob about it and he told me he thought it was a fairly rational fear for someone who has suffered a loss.

Big - I'm glad you are feeling a little reassured about it now.