Tali I'm appalled.

Bec...I'll share with you something I haven't told anyone here before. Tali, go ahead and judge me, not very 'Christian' of you.

When DH and I first got together, I had a termination. It was in the first few weeks of our relationship and I was on the pill. It was the hardest decision I ever made, and became the biggest regret of my life when a year later DH and I decided to try for a baby, and discovered our combined fertility issues. Having said that...it *was* the right decision. Right and easy are not always the same. It took us two years and many miscarriages, but we now have our baby. Nobody can tell you what to do except what's in your heart. If you want this child, keep it.

Wow, that was hard. Tali, keep your opinion to yourself. It's not appropriate here.