Tali, I think it was just a bad choice of words to express your opinion.

A suggestion of adoption is perfectly acceptable in my opinion. But yeah your choice of words was a bit thoughtless. Everyone already knows *what* a termination is doing. Its a delicate topic which needed just a touch of thoughtfulness when hitting the "submit" button.

ETA - Just want to add a smiley, Tali, I have a terrible history with tact. I often say it as I see it but am learning. So just wanted to add that my post isn't an attack on you like the others. Just simply pointing out the problem that you may not have realised.