I think everyone right now needs to take a step back, deep breath and maybe chill out a little - yes termination gets people riled up with strong reactions and emotions, but as others have said, here really isn't the time or the place. Bec has come here for some support and understanding, maybe a little advice on how to deal with the emotional fallout of what she's going through. NOT to put up with judgemental attacks no matter how much you may disagree with termination as an option!

Bec, there is a private support group for women who have been through or are considering terminating, that could be well worth joining. Wishing you all the best hun