Ultimatley hun its your choice and whatever your comfortable with. Don't be bullied into trying for a vaginal when you really don't want to. I had an emergency c/s with my first daughter as she got stuck. With my second daughter I 'thought' I wanted to try for a natural as thats what everybody else wanted and the praise I got for that was huge. As soon as I would mention that I had a choice of natural vs c/s everybody would frown on the c/s. In the end I followed my heart and went the scheduled c/s and thought bollocks to the people who looked down on me for it. It was seriously the best decision 'I' made for me. It was so much better than the first and I recovered so quickly. Within a week I was back to normal. Recovery does depend on the person but these days c/s's are so much more different then 20-30years ago when my mum had 3 c/s's and it took her ages to recover. These days with physio and doctors watchful eyes recovery is so much better.

Goodluck with your decision hun. Like I said make sure you make the right decision for you. Do your research.