I had forceps because Jackson was engaged and pretty much ready to come out, he was right in my pelvis and they couldn't get him out.

With the help at home thing, how old are your other children? You are not meant to lift anything heavier than your baby for 6 weeks or put your arms above your head. I don't want to have to have another c/s because Jackson will be only just 2YO and he couldn't survive a day without me picking him up let alone 6 weeks, he is such a mummy's boy!